Robert Fitzwilliam Berford Jr., affectionately known as Bob or Berf to his friends and loved ones,
passed away peacefully with his family by his side on January 27, 2025, in Grayling, Michigan. Born
on July 27, 1941, in Detroit, Michigan to Robert and Katherine Berford. Bob's life was a testament to
his loving nature, selfless spirit, and unique sense of humor that brought joy to everyone he knew.
Bob's journey began as one of three children in a vibrant household in Dearborn. His formative
years were filled with the bustling energy of the city, which shaped his resilient character. After
completing his education, Bob proudly graduated from Michigan State University with a Bachelor of
Science degree, which laid the foundation for his future endeavors.
His commitment to service was evident early on when he enlisted in the United States Marine
Corps Reserves. This was something he was so proud of. Bob served his country with honor, he was
honorably discharged in 1970, carrying the values of discipline and loyalty throughout his life.
Following his military service, Bob embarked on a fulfilling career with Ford Motor Company. His
dedication and hard work were recognized by many, and upon his retirement in 1997, he left behind
a legacy of achievements and friendships that endured long after his departure. He shared so many
stories of all the fun times he had “working”.
Bob's interests were as varied as they were passionate. He was an avid player of pool, a sharp
shooter at darts, and enjoyed the competitive spirit of volleyball. His love for the outdoors was
evident in his joy for camping, hunting, fishing, and shooting guns. He was a collector of all things.
Bob found solace and camaraderie in the simple pleasure of sharing a beer with friends at the local
bar. These moments were the building blocks of countless memories that his friends will hold dear.
Family was the cornerstone of Bob's life. He is survived by his loving family members, including his
daughters, Bethanne (Hamilton) Starr, Katrina Barton, Bobbi (Evan) Gusler. His sister Barbara (Bill)
Rosselot and brother Doug (Linda) Berford. His grandchildren and great grandson.
Bob's role as a grandfather was one he embraced with every ounce of his being. Though distance
separated him from many of his grandkids he loved them all dearly. He was especially close with
Ethan who was the light of his eye. He was the very best papa.
Bob's love for his family was matched by his selfless nature. To know Bob was to experience his
generosity firsthand, whether through his time, his support, or his uncanny ability to make anyone
laugh. He could fix anything. He loved cutting wood from his yard. His cabin in the woods down the
bumpy road was his place of serenity. His humor was a gift that lightened the hearts of those
around him, and it is this laughter that will echo in the memories of all who had the pleasure of
knowing him. So many memories along the way with travels to “up north”, the ranch, and camping.
In a life well-lived, Bob's impact was felt by many. His absence will be deeply felt by his family, his
numerous friends, and the community that was fortunate enough to have been graced by his
presence. Bob's legacy of love, laughter, and selflessness will continue to inspire those he has left
behind.
As we say farewell to Robert Fitzwilliam Berford Jr., we celebrate a life lived to the fullest. His spirit,
forever etched in the hearts of those he touched, will continue to guide and comfort us. Bob's
journey on this earth may have concluded, but the stories, the laughter, and the love he shared will
remain as vibrant and enduring as the man himself.
Bob's life will be honored in a private ceremony, as per his wishes. In the silent moments of
remembrance, let us all find solace in the rich tapestry of memories he has left us and the
unwavering love that defined his remarkable life.
We love you Dad
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